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We can be friends,

But we are no longer lovers.

That’s because

I love myself the most.

I don’t want to feel bad

When I get off the phone.

I won’t condone

Self-made misery.

I am refusing to participate

In the illusion of suffering.

I was betting on our potential.

You didn’t meet me on my level,

And I won’t go down to yours.

8 responses to “No More”

  1. johncoyote Avatar
    johncoyote

    I believe hard to go from lovers to friend. In my lifetime dear Brigid. Lovers could never become friends. Maybe we know too much, and we cannot forget the need. A tricky situation.

    1. brigidfaye Avatar
      brigidfaye

      Thank you, dear John, it’s been possible for me in the past but only with those who are willing. The ball is in his court now.

      1. johncoyote Avatar
        johncoyote

        I have always been a Gypsy till the children were born. Being a soldier, moving around every two-three year. Hard to become friends, maybe? You are welcome, dear Brigid.

      2. brigidfaye Avatar
        brigidfaye

        Yes, I’ve moved a lot in my time too. I think the longest I have lived somewhere is two years. It does make it hard to stay friends, but phones are a blessing for that.

      3. johncoyote Avatar
        johncoyote

        In my young days. No cell phones. I wish I had. I saw 40 countries. I would have a million photos.

      4. brigidfaye Avatar
        brigidfaye

        What you saw is saved in the sands of time. I’m going to post later today more about leaving things behind, I had a break-up today and am looking forward to your thoughts on it.

      5. johncoyote Avatar
        johncoyote

        Okay dear Brigid. I will be off to work soon. I work the nightshift.

      6. brigidfaye Avatar
        brigidfaye

        https://brigidfaye.com/2022/04/20/responsibility-and-boundaries/

        https://brigidfaye.com/2022/04/20/let-you-go/

        It took a couple of days, but this is some of the processing that I did.

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